So, this is my high horse tonight, it's a stupid pedestal to stand on and I realize that and I probably sound like I'm throwing a kid temper-tantrum but this is where I'm at tonight...WHY do we continue to support and "ok" the behaviors of wrong doer's? It's NOT ok!!...and show a LITTLE ounce of loyalty, support and respect to the person who was victim to wrong doer!!
What I'm finding out is who my real friends are and who most definitely are not! I never wanted to make people choose between me and my ex...but I didn't think I was expecting much by hoping that the one's who really have nothing to do with him or just even flat out hate him would take a stand for me and say "you know what? I don't need your friendship! You were a horrible person to my friend and I really don't want that kind of person in my life!"
I REALLY question people's concept of loyalty...You can't claim to radically stand and speak out on the pedestal of one belief, than encourage the opposite, which you are supposedly "ademently against"...Practice what you preach, be what you say your going to be. Only a coward talks out of both sides of their face!
I think it's high time to clean out the "friend closet"!
What I'm finding out is who my real friends are and who most definitely are not! I never wanted to make people choose between me and my ex...but I didn't think I was expecting much by hoping that the one's who really have nothing to do with him or just even flat out hate him would take a stand for me and say "you know what? I don't need your friendship! You were a horrible person to my friend and I really don't want that kind of person in my life!"
I REALLY question people's concept of loyalty...You can't claim to radically stand and speak out on the pedestal of one belief, than encourage the opposite, which you are supposedly "ademently against"...Practice what you preach, be what you say your going to be. Only a coward talks out of both sides of their face!
I think it's high time to clean out the "friend closet"!
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